Many women wonder what it is with the male fascination with heterosexual anal sex. Men seem to fantasize obsessively about anal sex. Hundreds of porn movies are made every year fetishizing anal sex. Women everywhere debate whether they should or shouldn't have anal sex with their boyfriend or husband. And men discuss amongst themselves how they can convince their female partners to give it a try. When women do have anal sex, the overwhelming majority do so at the request of their male partner.
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To begin, put a generous amount of water-based lube on one or two fingertips make sure you replenish the lube often and gently massage the area around the outer rim. Once he's riled up, test the waters by gently sliding just the tip of your middle finger inside. If he clenches his sphincter muscles, which encircle the anal opening, pull your finger out and continue rubbing the outer area to help reduce his tension. Then, try to insert your fingertip again. If he likes how this feels and is up for trying more anal action, gradually move your finger in deeper, taking care not to scratch the delicate tissue inside.
Looking to add some kink into the bedroom? My ex-girlfriend and I tried it one afternoon just for the hell of it. She'd actually lured me away from the college football game we were at with a promise that we could try anal if we left at halftime, which seemed like an okay deal to me. There wasn't really anything too special about it, to be honest, and she certainly wasn't enjoying it, though that was probably due to lack of proper preparation and lubrication.